Do Women Want You to Be the “Bad Boy”?
It’s a common frustration for the smart, kindly men of the world: try though as they might, they don’t seem to elicit the same response from women as a lot of the guys who actually seem dumber or even act like jerks. The “hot girl complaining about her jerk boyfriend to her nonthreatening male friend” [...]
Five Ways to Build Confidence
It’s not hard to see - women dig confidence. Confidence isn’t just about impressing women, however: it’s also about building up your own attitude so that you bring more positive energy to any given interaction. If you’re shy but want to build up your confidence, follow these five quick tips.
#1: Face a fear.
Someone once said [...]
Quick Tips That Will Help You Understand Women
The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ”What does a woman want?”
-Sigmund Freud
The common joke here is that men simply don’t understand women. Maybe that’s a perception that’s generally true. But we also [...]
Dating Advice: Get A Life
Whether you’re exchanging e-mails online or making an impression on your first date, part of the courting process will eventually sound like a casual job interview.
You know the questions I’m talking about: what do you do, where are you from, where did you go to school, what do you like to do for fun.
There’s nothing [...]
Top Ten Ways to Approach a Woman
Approaching women should be more like an art than a science. You should be worried more about authentic self-expression than a color-by-numbers approach built around “pickup lines.”
For men, approaching women can be a daunting, thrilling, and extremely rewarding experience. For many, it’s a challenge just to approach at all, let alone do it [...]
Dating Advice: Losing the Ego
Oftentimes, what separates us from the woman of our dreams isn’t our looks, our financial situation, or even our career: it’s ourselves.
Or, more accurately, it’s our ego.
What do I mean by “ego”? I don’t mean the traditional psychological definition; I mean the little self-representation we set up for yourselves, often an unrealistic projection of how [...]
Dating Advice: Taking the Lead
I can already hear you. You men are thinking “oh, come on, I know I’m supposed to take the lead.” True, but do you know how?
Both men and women have a lot to learn about taking the lead. Taking the lead applies to everything in life, from leading your partner in a [...]
